Tuesday, January 27, 2015

happy birthday and the differences from the Argentine culture and the U.S. culture

1/19/15 Day 68
 Again Nathan worked at the daycare painting all day.  The kids and I cut, painted, played playdough, used chalk, and made an apple pie..anything I could think of to have a busy productive day instead of a naughty productive day with the kids.

1/20/15 Day 69
Today Nathan worked at the daycare all  day finishing up the last of the painting.  He took Lydia with him and then the boys and I walked there shortly after.  I took pics of his progress and we played outside on the playground area for awhile.  This afternoon the kids and I went to Chito and Mary's house to play and drink mate.  We also played at the playground that is close to their house.

1/21/15 Day 70 Happy 2nd birthday Liam
Today Nathan stayed home so we could celebrate Liam's birthday together.  He fixed the washing machine this morning and this afternoon we went to Chito and Mary's house to celebrate Liam's birthday.  Mary made Liam a cake and we also played at the playground again.

1/22/15 Day 71
We woke up this morning to a down pour of rain.  It hasn't rained this much since we've been here.  It rained almost all morning and we had buckets and buckets of rain water pouring into our living room thru the light fixture.  We moved everything out of the living room and once the rain slowed down we cleaned the floors and squeeged the water out the door.  I can't believe how much rain we got this morning and how poorly our roof withstood the rain.  Nathan didn't go to work today because of all the rain and thunder and lightning made it pretty hazardous on the roads.  We all took a nap this afternoon and when we woke up it was hot and humid which doesn't happen often here because it's usually dry and hot with very little rain if any most of the time.  This evening about 7:00pm we were going to walk to Johnny Sieber's (Juan's sons) apartment and it started to down pour rain again.  It soaked the inside of our house again but we didn't have the buckets and buckets of water to clean up again.  After the rain stopped there was a double rainbow in the sky.  A beautiful reminder of God's promise after having so much rain today.  It stopped raining about 8pm so we then walked to Johnny's apartment and ate supper with him and talked until about midnight. 

1/23/15 Day 72
It is hot and humid today from all of the rain we got yesterday.  Nathan worked this morning at the daycare and the kids and I visited with Frieda for awhile.  This evening after naptime we all played at the park for a long time and then we had supper out.  It was a very enjoyable time together.

1/24/15 Day 73
Nathan got up early this morning and finished up the last of the painting on the outside of the daycare/church building.  The rest of the day was a lazy saturday playing and having a good time together as a family.

1/25/15 Day 74
This morning we walked to the river to play and swim and have a picnic lunch.  This evening all of the church zones met in the South zone church building for a church service at 7pm.  We walked there and had a church service and then talked with people afterward and Susanna gave us a ride home then.

EVERYTHING IS DIFFERENT HERE!
From the way people live live to taking care of everyday necessities.....everything is different.  I want to TRY to describe briefly here some differences so I don't forget.  Once you live in a place for awhile the differences are not so evident.......they become NORMAL, but none the less they are very different than what we are used to.

There is quite a bit of trash littering the streets.  People do try to care of their property but the kind of cleanliness that is in the States is just not here.  There are also many stray dogs here.....stray dogs means dog poop everywhere.  There aren't as many stray dogs here as there were last time we were here, but still enough stray dogs that our children notice the difference.  The streets here in Choele Choel don't have stop signs.  Where the streets intersect and there is no stop light the first vehicle to the intersection goes first.  If 2 cars come to an intersection at the same time, the car on the right has the right of way.  When driving in a car this makes me nervous as I'm not used to this kind of driving.  For the price of gas and the amount of $$ that people make......gas is relatively expensive.  This is in part why many people have mopeds or motorcycles or small vehicles.  All cars are 5 speeds.  Most cars have seatbelts (at least in the front) but most people do not use seatbelts and since most cars are very small it really isn't feasible for carseats either.  It's not a law for kid carseats like it is in the States.  It is not uncommon for whole families to be riding on a motorcycle together.  Food is pretty expensive here and someone told me recently that about 80 percent of a families income goes to buying food.  That sounds incredibly high to me but that's what I was told.  The Argentine work day is from about 8am-1pm and then most people go home to eat their big meal with their family for lunch about 2pm, then some people go back to work from 5pm-9pm or so and most Argentine families eat supper between 9-11pm.  The food is different here too.  Many Argentine families eat lots of bread, meat and yerba mate, along with cookies and cakes and such.  There is not as much of varieties of foods as we are used to eating in the States.  The keys that open doors are different than we are used to.  Also there is 240 volts electricity instead of the 110 that we are used to in the U.S. along with a different kind of wall plug in.  The ketchup and mustard and mayonase come in plastic packaging as well as the milk.  You can't buy a gallon of milk here.  It comes in plastic liter bags.  Since it is so hot all of the time with very little rain there are also water sprinklers that water the public grass at varying intervals throughout the day.  So many differences but many of them feel more normal the more time we spend here. 

Monday, January 19, 2015

painting at the daycare all week

1/12/15 Day 61
Nathan worked at the daycare today and he is planning on being there all week.  He recently has been repainting on the inside of the building.  The kids and I visited for awhile with Delbert and Frieda this morning and we also had lunch with the ILPA team.  Please remember Frieda in your prayers as she has some kind of bone cancer and the doctors are trying to figure out where and how to best treat her....for now she has been getting regular blood transfusions.  Our highlight this evening was going over to Susanna's house for supper.  She is the one in charge of the daycare and is taking over Frieda's position of running this ministry.  Our kids really got to know her well the first couple of weeks we were here as we went to the daycare often.  We had an amazing meal of pizza, hamburgers, salad and potatoes with them and fruit/icecream for dessert.  Our kids then played soccer with their three teenage sons while we talked and hung out.  We walked home then about midnight.

1/13/15 Day 62
Nathan worked this morning at the daycare and then for lunch Juan and Ami took us to Beltran for a lunch invitation.  We were invited to Clavio's farm house for lunch.  We saw his farm and all of his animals and then had lunch with his family.  His wife served us an amazing meal and we stayed well into the afternoon visiting.

1/14/15 Day 63
Nathan worked at the daycare again and we had lunch with the ILPA team again.  This evening we walked to the West zone church for their prayer meeting.  Juan preached about the cost of following Jesus and the dangers of being lukewarm.

1/15/15 Day 64
Nathan has been getting alot of work done at the daycare.  I'll have to post some pictures of the progress next week as I don't have any pics right now.  We tried to survive the heat today and find some creative things for the kids to do.  This evening Nathan and I went out on a date night while Elizabeth so graciously babysat for us.  We had a wonderful evening together and it was such a blessing to have some "you and me alone time."  It never happens so it felt very refreshing.

1/16/15 Day 65
Nathan worked all day at the daycare and while he was gone Lydia burned up the washing machine (not on purpose), Jayvin cut his hair (on purpose), and Liam strung out all of the toilet paper rolls in the church bathroon.  I'm having a hard time keeping up with three busy children today.  I decided to take them to the park to burn some energy and get away from all of the crazy.

1/17/15 Day 66
This morning was much cooler with a little rain and it is a welcomed relief.  Nathan tried to figure out what was wrong with the washing machine and we did some odds and ends around the house.  Nathan and Jayvin also went to Delbert and Frieda's house to mow their lawn.  This afternoon Nathan went to the daycare to paint with a group of people that came to help as well.

1/18/15 Day 67
Each church zone met in their own building this morning for worship time.  We went to the central church worship service and then for lunch with went with Elizabeth to Estella's farm.  We had lunch with her and her daughter (who is 12 years old), talked for awhile and then she took us to a town close by called Pamona.  Here the Rio Negro is not nearly as turbulant as it is in Choele Choel and so we played in the park there and then swam in the river.  It was a very fun, relaxing afternoon/evening of playing and hanging out with Estella.

**Sorry for no pictures this week.  I'm not sure why I neglected to take any.  I'll try to do better next week:)

Monday, January 12, 2015

our week back "home"

1/4/15 Day 53
Last night we got back at 8pm from our long bus ride from Chile.  This morning at 10am all the church zones met in the central church building for worship.  A pastor today prayed over Liam and his shoulder and we also had communion together.  We spent the rest of the day resting and unpacking.  Happy New Year, Feliz 2015!




1/5/15 Day 54
Today the ILPA team started meeting from 7am until lunch time for worship, prayer and Bible study.  This team consists of 6 people from Choele Choel, Argentina and 2 people from Illinois.  As long as they get their visas the team plans on being in Illinois at the different SIMP mission sights starting in March for a whole year.  Although, we aren't a part of the team we had lunch with them today and spent some time with them.  Check out the video at       https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ywRyBc76Nfk

1/6/15 Day 55
Starting today Nathan is working at the daycare at the North Zone church building helping to paint, varnish and clean everything before the children and teachers come back in February.  This evening Jacob, Elizabeth, and us walked to Rollo and Evelyn's house to visit and have supper with them.  Rollo and Evelyn were Jacob's host family when he was here six years ago.  They have an 8 year old and a 6 year old and two year old girls.  Lydia loved playing with the girls and Jayvin loved swimming in their kiddie pool.  We didn't get home until after midnight, this is very typical of an Argentine family- to eat supper later at night between 10pm and midnight.

1/7/15 Day 56
Nathan worked this morning at the daycare again while the kids and I went to the park to play.  We then had lunch with the ILPA team at Juan and Ami's house and then Nathan and I and the kids swam in their pool.  This evening we did family devotions instead of going to a church prayer meeting and then we walked to the Heladaderia for helado.

1/8/15 Day 57
This morning Nathan worked at the daycare again and at 10am the kids and I walked there too to see the progress that Nathan was making.  I got groceries at La Anonima the larger grocery store close to the daycare and then we walked home for lunch.  Thank you for all who have been praying for Liam's shoulder, these past couple of days he seems to be doing much better than before.

                             Rafael and Liam playing the guitar                 Pedro and Lydia
1/9/15 Day 58
Nathan worked all day at the daycare today except for coming home for lunch.  This evening we celebrated Elizabeth's 30th birthday with her along with about 16 other friends.  We had supper and icecream together.  Our children were very happy to play with the other children Nazarena, Marianna, Valentine and Pedro.  Food, fun, and fellowship-what a great way to celebrate a birthday.

In Chile, we had internet access in the house we were staying in, a washing machine and dryer, a warm shower that never ran out, much cooler weather, comfy beds, less bugs, a refrigerator that was reliable, and did I mention much cooler weather-yes the high there was mostly in the high 60's.  Here in Choele the low's are in the high 60's-quite the difference.  Plus we had lots and lots of fun times with Jacob and Elizabeth living in the same house.  Honestly, this wee transitioning back to "home," has been difficult for all of us for different reasons.  With less living space, a bed that probably was old 20 years ago, hot HOt HOT weather, a refrigerator that doesn't cool very well, a very small washing machine, and cock roaches galore.....it feels like a harder transition this week then it did the first weeks coming here from the States.  We will adjust though, and I think it needs to be said here that we are STILL grateful and in awe of the ways the Lord has provided for us to be here.  We are really unworthy of serving in this way but are so greatful.

1/10/15 Day 59
This morning we went to the river to play and relax on such a hot morning. Fun times were had by all.  Lydia and Nathan loved taking the current together and floating down stream and the boys were happy to run and splash into the water.  This afternoon Nathan went back to the daycare to help the group of people that were coming to paint the inside of the daycare. 

1/11/15 Day 60
Today all church zones met out at the chacra (Juan's house) to worship and celebrate new life in Christ.  We had a worship service, the ILPA team was introduced, along with our family and Nazarena was baptized.  We then had a picnic lunch and spent all afternoon/evening visiting with people, swimming, play games and chasing children.  LOTS OF FUN!

Sunday, January 4, 2015

our vacation time in Valdivia, Chile

We spent two and a half weeks in Valdivia Chile.  From December 12th thru January 3rd.  We celebrated our 7th anniversary, Christmas and New Year's while we were there.  I am going to try to attempt to convey the highlights and lowlights of our trip and time there and how our time went.

Highlights:
*meeting the missionary family who is living in Valdivia and ministering there (they are from the States and have 3 small children like us-6yrs, 3yrs, and 8 mos).  We spent a good amount of time with them and our children just loved playing with their children. 
*getting to know the Church that meets there and meeting new friends from that congregation.
*getting to go to the beach two times -even on Christmas day
*celebrating our anniversary(a big thanks to Jacob and Elizabeth for babysitting for us while we went out to a nice restarant by ourselves), Christmas Chilean style, and New Year's Eve
*doing some tourist things-including going to the Mall, shopping, touring a submarine, seeing the fish market downtown, doing a riverboat cruise, and looking in lots of differnt shops, and YES eating sushi at a resturant (I didn't think I liked sushi, but I do if it's all cooked.....YUM!)
*living in a large house with Jacob and Elizabeth.......we felt very very blessed to be with them more.
*have WIFI in the house, a comfy bed to sleep on, a larger washer AND dryer machine, and MUCH MUCH cooler weather.
*Our time in Chile was very blessed

Lowlights:
*Nathan loosing his wallet in a taxi (it had ~$60 U.S. dollars equvilant of Chilean pesos in it along with his drivers lisence, credit card, and debit card), which we never found.
*Liam fell off the window ledge which really was only a two foot drop, but he landed on his left shoulder in a way that hurt him.  We took him to the doctor and then got an x-ray.  The good news is he has no broken bones, the bad news is we think it's more than just a bruise.  He is still complaining about it.  Prayers on his behalf and for our wisdom to know what to do for him would be greatly appreicated.
 

















Monday, December 15, 2014

A beautiful week-our happy news!

12/8/14 Day 26
Today is a Catholic holiday so most people don't have to work.  We did some odds and ends stuff here and bought out tickets to go to Chile.  We will be gone from Dec 16-Jan 5.  This is to renew our visas and to spend some vacation time away for Christmas, plus we will be helping with projects at the missionary center we will be staying at.  This evening the South zone church had a talent show for the kids and then food items to buy afterwards.  We went to that with Elizabeth and then ended up staying late and talking to others that were there.

12/9/14 Day 27
We did alot of fun things today.  This morning we walked to Juan and Ami's house to swim.  We swam for awhile and then ate a picnic lunch.  This afternoon we walked to Jorge and Angelica's house which is just down the road from Juan's house.  This is where Nathan has helped Jorge pick cherries at his house.  Our kids played with their kids.  They loved the tree house that they have out back and Jayvin wanted to be a worker and pick cherries.  We also watched Nazarena (their daughter) do her twirling acrobats on her ribbon-like rope in the house.  Nathan tried to do it as well and we all got a good laugh.  Elizabeth and I talked with Angelica for awhile and then we walked back to Juan's house.  This evening we went over to Pablo and Viviana's house for supper with Elizabeth.  They have two boys Mateo and Juan who are age 6 & 8 yrs old.  It was a wonderful meal with friends and fellowship-we really enjoyed the visit with them.  We got home ~midnight from eating with them.
12/10/14 Day 28
Nathan went out to Juan's house this morning to work and the kids and I visited with Delbert and Frieda for awhile and then we took a walk to try to find the shoe that Liam lost on our way home from Pablo and Vivi's house last night.  We didn't find the shoe but I checked out a new grocery store that I hadn't been to before.  This afternoon we had Elizabeth over for lunch and then we took a long siesta.  This whole week has been so so beautiful weather wise with the high's in the 80's and cooling off at night.  This evening we took a long walk with the kids and then had family devotions together instead of going to the church for their prayer meeting.
12/11/14 Day 29
Nathan ran to Juan's house this morning with Lydia on his front pack.  I think he'll be sore tomorrow.  The boys and I went to the market for fresh produce and then they helped me cut up fruits and vegetables to prep for lunch. 
12/12/14 Day 30
Today Nathan went to Juan's house to work until late afternoon.  We were going to go to Juan and Ami's house for supper tonight but they weren't able to at the last minute because of change of plans.  Lydia spent the night with Elizabeth and two other friends, Nazarena and Mariana.  Lydia was looking forward to this ALL week.  We walked to the icecream shop for icecream with the girls and had a good time together.  The girls definently had a slumber party, but I don't think there was too much slumbering going on.   I can not believe it has been a whole month since we have been here already.  I feel so greatful for the opportunity to be here and the ways the Lord has provided for us.  In so many ways we feel very blessed and humbled to be used by the Lord in this way.  We wish we could sit down with each and every one of you and tell you of the miracles of the Lord in our lives for the ways He has provided for us to be here.  Suffice it to say that He has provided EVERYTHING WE NEED for LIFE AND GODLINESS.  May we be found faithful in what He has given us.  Speaking of blessings, we were able to skype my parent's and grandma tonight to tell them that we are expecting baby #4.  I am 13 weeks pregnant today and expecting another sweet little one in June.
12/13/14 Day 31
Today we went to Humberto and Monica's chacra(farm) to spend the day there.  This is Mariana's family.  We ate lunch with them and swam in their pool.  It was a wonderful day of play and sun and talking with Humberto of the things of the Lord.
12/14/14 Day 32
Today we went to Juan and Ami's (behind their) house, for a church service with the West zone and the ladies that had come for a retreat from another town.  Juan preached the message and then we all had lunch together (asado-meat cooked on an open fire).  The kids enjoyed running around with the other kids and splashing in their pool.  This afternoon/evening it rained and rained and we even lost power for about 45 minutes but we are very thankful for the rain to cool everything off.
12/15/14 Day 33
Today we are packing and doing laundry and last minute grocery shopping.  Early tomorrow morning (3am) we are heading out by bus with Jacob and Elizabeth to spend 2 1/2 weeks in Chile.  I don't know if I will update our blog until we get back, but we would covet your prayers for safety while we travel.

Monday, December 8, 2014

A whole week of YUCKS!

12/1/14 Day 19
Nathan and Jayving went to Juan's house to work this morning.  He is helping with odd jobs around his house that need to be done.  Like picking up sticks, digging a trench, hauling pipes, and cement work for a new pool.  Lydia, Liam and I walked to the daycare and spent the morning there. 
12/2/14 Day 20  "Thankful"
Today the kids and I stayed home to do grocery shopping, cleaning and laundry while Nathan went to Juan's house this morning to work.  Today I am thankful for the small (big to me) ways that people are reaching out to us in the community.  We went to the market today to buy produce and the man there was talking to the kids and interacting with them.  Then we went to the grocery store and the man at the meat counter asked how long were were going to be here in Choele and he was teasing the kids a bit.  I'm so grateful for the small ways that I can communicate and interact with the community people here.  Lydia put up our Christmas decorations today, but it doesn't seem like Christmas around here with the temperature well into the 90's today.  Tonight we had Tyler over for supper.  He just graduated from high school and has been staying at Chito and Mary's house for the past six months.  He is from Pennsylvania and will be returning to the States shortly.  It was fun to get to know him better and we talked with him from 7-11pm.  We got to bed by midnight and by 1am Liam was throwing up.  This lasted every 30-45 minutes until about 4:30am. 
12/3/14  Day 21   "Tired"
Nathan was going to go to Juan's house today and we were going to go back to the daycare but since we are both tired from being up with Liam last night we are all staying home today.  We will work on cleaning and laundry today-both seem like never ending tasks.  The good news is that Liam seemed fine all day today.  This evening we walked to the North zone church for their prayer meeting.  Pablo and Vivi (the pastors son and his wife) asked us over for supper next Tuesday night which we are grateful for and Delbert brought us home from the church meeting so we didn't have to walk.  On our way home Delbert said that the cook and another boy from the daycare were throwing up too, so Liam must have gotten a virus from there. 
12/4/14 Day 22 "Sick"
We had a good nights rest but Jayvin started throwing up early this morning.  Nathan decided to go to Jorge's farm to help pick cherries early this morning right after Jayvin had thrown up just once.  After Nathan left though Jayvin kept throwing up again  and again and then Lydia woke up and she started throwing up too.  I had two pukers simulateously and I didn't know what I was going to do.  I asked Elizabeth to text Jorge to tell Nathan to come back home.  Nathan came back then ~10am and Lydia and Jayvin were sick all day long.  I was doing laundry from the time we woke up until the time we went to bed today.  I was grateful for a working washing machine though.  It takes ~ 2 1/2 loads of laundry for every 1 load I would have done in the States and each load takes ~ 1 1/2 hours to do-exactly why I was doing laundry ALL day long from all of the yucky's.  The temperature got to 104 degrees today but this morning was pleasantly cool, so we stayed outside as much as possible this morning so they could puke outside and then I could wash it away.  By the afternoon I was starting to feel nauseous, but I just thought it was from cleaning up so much from the kids.  By evening I threw up, but thankfully only once.  I just want to end this day and start over better tomorrow.
12/5/14 Day 23
I don't have any energy this morning but I'm feeling better than yesterday and everyone else is too.  Thankfully Nathan never got sick.  It has felt like a long miserable week and Nathan and I are feeling homesick this evening for different reasons.  This evening we walked to a park for the kids to play.  This is a park we had never checked out before-one that is really close to our house-it's about all the energy I had for the day, but we didn't stay long.  Soon after getting there we realized we were getting thorn like bristles in our sandals and the tires of the stoller.  I was worried that we would have holes in the tires of our stroller by morning, but thankfully we didn't.  The temperature here today was 101 degrees, so it was another hot day.  Nathan and the two older kids decided to sleep outside since it was much cooler outside than inside.
12/6/14 Day 24  "Glory a Dios"
By 5am Nathan and the kids were back inside from their tent adventure.  It was starting to rain very hard.  It hardly ever rains here in the desert of the Patagonia, so it was a welcomed relief to have rain.  It rained a good part of the morning and really cooled everything off.  What a wonderful blessing to be cooler and to have all of our windows open for a good part of the morning.  This morning Elizabeth and I walked to La Anonima (the larger grocery store) to buy food for the next couple of days since Monday is a holiday here.  On our way there Floyd and Jacob pulled up and they were headed there too, so we got a ride the rest of the way there and all the way back with our groceries.  It's amazing how the Lord provides for us.  At 5pm today Elizabeth and I took our kids to Pablo and Vero's house.  We talked with Vero for awhile and the kids played with Pedro their five year old son. 
12/7/14 Day 25
This morning a group of people picked us up in the church van to drive to Darwin.  This town is only about 10 minutes away and it is a place where they have a mission center.  Last time we were here Nathan and I had helped extensively on building the church building in Darwin, so we were very excited to return here and see the people and building that we had worked hard on.  Right when we were on the outskirts on town Jayvin puked in the van, so they graciously turned the van around and we went back home to get him a new shirt.  I would have been very disappointed if we weren't able to go today, because of being stuck at home all week with the pukes.  He seemed to be fine all the rest of the day.  We had a worship service in the buiding and made empanadas there for lunch. 
 
This evening at 7pm all of the church zones here met in the central church building all together for worship and church.  Lydia sure is making friends here and this evening she even went to the Sunday school class for her age group all by herself.  This mommy is thankful for the ways that she is meeting people and really interacting with other kids here.