Tuesday, January 27, 2015

happy birthday and the differences from the Argentine culture and the U.S. culture

1/19/15 Day 68
 Again Nathan worked at the daycare painting all day.  The kids and I cut, painted, played playdough, used chalk, and made an apple pie..anything I could think of to have a busy productive day instead of a naughty productive day with the kids.

1/20/15 Day 69
Today Nathan worked at the daycare all  day finishing up the last of the painting.  He took Lydia with him and then the boys and I walked there shortly after.  I took pics of his progress and we played outside on the playground area for awhile.  This afternoon the kids and I went to Chito and Mary's house to play and drink mate.  We also played at the playground that is close to their house.

1/21/15 Day 70 Happy 2nd birthday Liam
Today Nathan stayed home so we could celebrate Liam's birthday together.  He fixed the washing machine this morning and this afternoon we went to Chito and Mary's house to celebrate Liam's birthday.  Mary made Liam a cake and we also played at the playground again.

1/22/15 Day 71
We woke up this morning to a down pour of rain.  It hasn't rained this much since we've been here.  It rained almost all morning and we had buckets and buckets of rain water pouring into our living room thru the light fixture.  We moved everything out of the living room and once the rain slowed down we cleaned the floors and squeeged the water out the door.  I can't believe how much rain we got this morning and how poorly our roof withstood the rain.  Nathan didn't go to work today because of all the rain and thunder and lightning made it pretty hazardous on the roads.  We all took a nap this afternoon and when we woke up it was hot and humid which doesn't happen often here because it's usually dry and hot with very little rain if any most of the time.  This evening about 7:00pm we were going to walk to Johnny Sieber's (Juan's sons) apartment and it started to down pour rain again.  It soaked the inside of our house again but we didn't have the buckets and buckets of water to clean up again.  After the rain stopped there was a double rainbow in the sky.  A beautiful reminder of God's promise after having so much rain today.  It stopped raining about 8pm so we then walked to Johnny's apartment and ate supper with him and talked until about midnight. 

1/23/15 Day 72
It is hot and humid today from all of the rain we got yesterday.  Nathan worked this morning at the daycare and the kids and I visited with Frieda for awhile.  This evening after naptime we all played at the park for a long time and then we had supper out.  It was a very enjoyable time together.

1/24/15 Day 73
Nathan got up early this morning and finished up the last of the painting on the outside of the daycare/church building.  The rest of the day was a lazy saturday playing and having a good time together as a family.

1/25/15 Day 74
This morning we walked to the river to play and swim and have a picnic lunch.  This evening all of the church zones met in the South zone church building for a church service at 7pm.  We walked there and had a church service and then talked with people afterward and Susanna gave us a ride home then.

EVERYTHING IS DIFFERENT HERE!
From the way people live live to taking care of everyday necessities.....everything is different.  I want to TRY to describe briefly here some differences so I don't forget.  Once you live in a place for awhile the differences are not so evident.......they become NORMAL, but none the less they are very different than what we are used to.

There is quite a bit of trash littering the streets.  People do try to care of their property but the kind of cleanliness that is in the States is just not here.  There are also many stray dogs here.....stray dogs means dog poop everywhere.  There aren't as many stray dogs here as there were last time we were here, but still enough stray dogs that our children notice the difference.  The streets here in Choele Choel don't have stop signs.  Where the streets intersect and there is no stop light the first vehicle to the intersection goes first.  If 2 cars come to an intersection at the same time, the car on the right has the right of way.  When driving in a car this makes me nervous as I'm not used to this kind of driving.  For the price of gas and the amount of $$ that people make......gas is relatively expensive.  This is in part why many people have mopeds or motorcycles or small vehicles.  All cars are 5 speeds.  Most cars have seatbelts (at least in the front) but most people do not use seatbelts and since most cars are very small it really isn't feasible for carseats either.  It's not a law for kid carseats like it is in the States.  It is not uncommon for whole families to be riding on a motorcycle together.  Food is pretty expensive here and someone told me recently that about 80 percent of a families income goes to buying food.  That sounds incredibly high to me but that's what I was told.  The Argentine work day is from about 8am-1pm and then most people go home to eat their big meal with their family for lunch about 2pm, then some people go back to work from 5pm-9pm or so and most Argentine families eat supper between 9-11pm.  The food is different here too.  Many Argentine families eat lots of bread, meat and yerba mate, along with cookies and cakes and such.  There is not as much of varieties of foods as we are used to eating in the States.  The keys that open doors are different than we are used to.  Also there is 240 volts electricity instead of the 110 that we are used to in the U.S. along with a different kind of wall plug in.  The ketchup and mustard and mayonase come in plastic packaging as well as the milk.  You can't buy a gallon of milk here.  It comes in plastic liter bags.  Since it is so hot all of the time with very little rain there are also water sprinklers that water the public grass at varying intervals throughout the day.  So many differences but many of them feel more normal the more time we spend here. 

Monday, January 19, 2015

painting at the daycare all week

1/12/15 Day 61
Nathan worked at the daycare today and he is planning on being there all week.  He recently has been repainting on the inside of the building.  The kids and I visited for awhile with Delbert and Frieda this morning and we also had lunch with the ILPA team.  Please remember Frieda in your prayers as she has some kind of bone cancer and the doctors are trying to figure out where and how to best treat her....for now she has been getting regular blood transfusions.  Our highlight this evening was going over to Susanna's house for supper.  She is the one in charge of the daycare and is taking over Frieda's position of running this ministry.  Our kids really got to know her well the first couple of weeks we were here as we went to the daycare often.  We had an amazing meal of pizza, hamburgers, salad and potatoes with them and fruit/icecream for dessert.  Our kids then played soccer with their three teenage sons while we talked and hung out.  We walked home then about midnight.

1/13/15 Day 62
Nathan worked this morning at the daycare and then for lunch Juan and Ami took us to Beltran for a lunch invitation.  We were invited to Clavio's farm house for lunch.  We saw his farm and all of his animals and then had lunch with his family.  His wife served us an amazing meal and we stayed well into the afternoon visiting.

1/14/15 Day 63
Nathan worked at the daycare again and we had lunch with the ILPA team again.  This evening we walked to the West zone church for their prayer meeting.  Juan preached about the cost of following Jesus and the dangers of being lukewarm.

1/15/15 Day 64
Nathan has been getting alot of work done at the daycare.  I'll have to post some pictures of the progress next week as I don't have any pics right now.  We tried to survive the heat today and find some creative things for the kids to do.  This evening Nathan and I went out on a date night while Elizabeth so graciously babysat for us.  We had a wonderful evening together and it was such a blessing to have some "you and me alone time."  It never happens so it felt very refreshing.

1/16/15 Day 65
Nathan worked all day at the daycare and while he was gone Lydia burned up the washing machine (not on purpose), Jayvin cut his hair (on purpose), and Liam strung out all of the toilet paper rolls in the church bathroon.  I'm having a hard time keeping up with three busy children today.  I decided to take them to the park to burn some energy and get away from all of the crazy.

1/17/15 Day 66
This morning was much cooler with a little rain and it is a welcomed relief.  Nathan tried to figure out what was wrong with the washing machine and we did some odds and ends around the house.  Nathan and Jayvin also went to Delbert and Frieda's house to mow their lawn.  This afternoon Nathan went to the daycare to paint with a group of people that came to help as well.

1/18/15 Day 67
Each church zone met in their own building this morning for worship time.  We went to the central church worship service and then for lunch with went with Elizabeth to Estella's farm.  We had lunch with her and her daughter (who is 12 years old), talked for awhile and then she took us to a town close by called Pamona.  Here the Rio Negro is not nearly as turbulant as it is in Choele Choel and so we played in the park there and then swam in the river.  It was a very fun, relaxing afternoon/evening of playing and hanging out with Estella.

**Sorry for no pictures this week.  I'm not sure why I neglected to take any.  I'll try to do better next week:)

Monday, January 12, 2015

our week back "home"

1/4/15 Day 53
Last night we got back at 8pm from our long bus ride from Chile.  This morning at 10am all the church zones met in the central church building for worship.  A pastor today prayed over Liam and his shoulder and we also had communion together.  We spent the rest of the day resting and unpacking.  Happy New Year, Feliz 2015!




1/5/15 Day 54
Today the ILPA team started meeting from 7am until lunch time for worship, prayer and Bible study.  This team consists of 6 people from Choele Choel, Argentina and 2 people from Illinois.  As long as they get their visas the team plans on being in Illinois at the different SIMP mission sights starting in March for a whole year.  Although, we aren't a part of the team we had lunch with them today and spent some time with them.  Check out the video at       https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ywRyBc76Nfk

1/6/15 Day 55
Starting today Nathan is working at the daycare at the North Zone church building helping to paint, varnish and clean everything before the children and teachers come back in February.  This evening Jacob, Elizabeth, and us walked to Rollo and Evelyn's house to visit and have supper with them.  Rollo and Evelyn were Jacob's host family when he was here six years ago.  They have an 8 year old and a 6 year old and two year old girls.  Lydia loved playing with the girls and Jayvin loved swimming in their kiddie pool.  We didn't get home until after midnight, this is very typical of an Argentine family- to eat supper later at night between 10pm and midnight.

1/7/15 Day 56
Nathan worked this morning at the daycare again while the kids and I went to the park to play.  We then had lunch with the ILPA team at Juan and Ami's house and then Nathan and I and the kids swam in their pool.  This evening we did family devotions instead of going to a church prayer meeting and then we walked to the Heladaderia for helado.

1/8/15 Day 57
This morning Nathan worked at the daycare again and at 10am the kids and I walked there too to see the progress that Nathan was making.  I got groceries at La Anonima the larger grocery store close to the daycare and then we walked home for lunch.  Thank you for all who have been praying for Liam's shoulder, these past couple of days he seems to be doing much better than before.

                             Rafael and Liam playing the guitar                 Pedro and Lydia
1/9/15 Day 58
Nathan worked all day at the daycare today except for coming home for lunch.  This evening we celebrated Elizabeth's 30th birthday with her along with about 16 other friends.  We had supper and icecream together.  Our children were very happy to play with the other children Nazarena, Marianna, Valentine and Pedro.  Food, fun, and fellowship-what a great way to celebrate a birthday.

In Chile, we had internet access in the house we were staying in, a washing machine and dryer, a warm shower that never ran out, much cooler weather, comfy beds, less bugs, a refrigerator that was reliable, and did I mention much cooler weather-yes the high there was mostly in the high 60's.  Here in Choele the low's are in the high 60's-quite the difference.  Plus we had lots and lots of fun times with Jacob and Elizabeth living in the same house.  Honestly, this wee transitioning back to "home," has been difficult for all of us for different reasons.  With less living space, a bed that probably was old 20 years ago, hot HOt HOT weather, a refrigerator that doesn't cool very well, a very small washing machine, and cock roaches galore.....it feels like a harder transition this week then it did the first weeks coming here from the States.  We will adjust though, and I think it needs to be said here that we are STILL grateful and in awe of the ways the Lord has provided for us to be here.  We are really unworthy of serving in this way but are so greatful.

1/10/15 Day 59
This morning we went to the river to play and relax on such a hot morning. Fun times were had by all.  Lydia and Nathan loved taking the current together and floating down stream and the boys were happy to run and splash into the water.  This afternoon Nathan went back to the daycare to help the group of people that were coming to paint the inside of the daycare. 

1/11/15 Day 60
Today all church zones met out at the chacra (Juan's house) to worship and celebrate new life in Christ.  We had a worship service, the ILPA team was introduced, along with our family and Nazarena was baptized.  We then had a picnic lunch and spent all afternoon/evening visiting with people, swimming, play games and chasing children.  LOTS OF FUN!

Sunday, January 4, 2015

our vacation time in Valdivia, Chile

We spent two and a half weeks in Valdivia Chile.  From December 12th thru January 3rd.  We celebrated our 7th anniversary, Christmas and New Year's while we were there.  I am going to try to attempt to convey the highlights and lowlights of our trip and time there and how our time went.

Highlights:
*meeting the missionary family who is living in Valdivia and ministering there (they are from the States and have 3 small children like us-6yrs, 3yrs, and 8 mos).  We spent a good amount of time with them and our children just loved playing with their children. 
*getting to know the Church that meets there and meeting new friends from that congregation.
*getting to go to the beach two times -even on Christmas day
*celebrating our anniversary(a big thanks to Jacob and Elizabeth for babysitting for us while we went out to a nice restarant by ourselves), Christmas Chilean style, and New Year's Eve
*doing some tourist things-including going to the Mall, shopping, touring a submarine, seeing the fish market downtown, doing a riverboat cruise, and looking in lots of differnt shops, and YES eating sushi at a resturant (I didn't think I liked sushi, but I do if it's all cooked.....YUM!)
*living in a large house with Jacob and Elizabeth.......we felt very very blessed to be with them more.
*have WIFI in the house, a comfy bed to sleep on, a larger washer AND dryer machine, and MUCH MUCH cooler weather.
*Our time in Chile was very blessed

Lowlights:
*Nathan loosing his wallet in a taxi (it had ~$60 U.S. dollars equvilant of Chilean pesos in it along with his drivers lisence, credit card, and debit card), which we never found.
*Liam fell off the window ledge which really was only a two foot drop, but he landed on his left shoulder in a way that hurt him.  We took him to the doctor and then got an x-ray.  The good news is he has no broken bones, the bad news is we think it's more than just a bruise.  He is still complaining about it.  Prayers on his behalf and for our wisdom to know what to do for him would be greatly appreicated.